PLEASURE YOURSELF

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Us women spend a lot of time worrying about ways to please our partners sexual . We're always wanting to try are learn new ways of pleasuring our man. Now it's time we start learning ways to please us... With masturbation, we can enjoy learning about what turns us on, what kinds of touches arouse us, and at what tempo or speed. We can learn about ourselves without thinking about a partner's opinions.
Ultimately, masturbation can help women develop a sense of self-confidence, which helps them make healthy sexual choices. It’s a perfect way for women to explore their own bodies, and learn what they like or dislike. After all, woman, if you don’t know how to please yourself – who will? It’s tough to enjoy sex with a partner when you don’t know what feels good or how your body reacts best from sexual touching. Don't be afraid to explore your body. You can use just your fingers or you can be daring and experiment with sex toys. Every women should own a vibrator. There is no penis nor mouth that can measure up to the sensation of a vibrator against your citoris.... Some man take offense to a woman who uses a vibrator... because of his underlining fear that he can't make you feel as good... but their is no vibrator that could ever take the place of the feeling and touch of your man. It really makes me mad that there’s such a double standard. Males are encouraged to be sexual and masturbate, but women are more likely to be seen as slutty or sinful if they do. Its OK to love yourself and body, and to find ways to make it feel good. When you learn your body you'll be surprised how much better your sex life with your man will get...and he for sure will benefit from you learning yourself.

Valentina Lovett