http://www.valentinalovett.com/This one is for the girl you can take home to mom, but won't because its easier to mess around with a whore than work on a relationship; this is for the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment, or never real to begin with.
This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to discover that he's just not ready, he's just not over "her", he's just not looking to be tied down; this is for the girls who believe the excuses because it's easier to believe that it's not that they don't want you, it's that they don't want anyone.
This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too selfish to have cared in the first place; this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech. for the nights when you've returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen him from across the room leaning a little too close, or standing a little too near, or talking a little too softly for the girl he's with to be an "old friend."This is for the girls who have showed up party after party just to be in his presence, and finally realizing that it wasn't that he didn't want a relationship: it was that he didn't want you. this is for the nights his dog died or his grandmother died or his little brother crashed his car and you held him, thinking that if you only comforted him just right, said the right words, or rubbed his back in the right way.. then perhaps he'd realize what it was that he already had.
This is for the night you realized that it would never happen, and the sunrise you saw the next morning after falling to sleep.
This is for the "I really like you, so let's still be friends" comment & this is for realizing that when you choose friends, you hardly choose those which make you cry yourself to sleep.
This is for the girls who have been used and abused, who have settled for what he was giving because at least he was giving something. this is for the stupidity of the nights you've believed that something was better than nothing, though his something was nothing you've ever wanted.
This is for the hugs you've received from your girlfriends, for the nights they've reassured you that you are beautiful. and that you are truly worthy of a great guy; this is for the regret youve felt as you sat in the aftermath of your tears, knowing that that night the only companionship you'd have was with a pillow. This is for the girlS who now can look in the mirror and see how much their worth...and can love herself enough to move on because she now knows she deserve so much better.
Sorry ladies but yes it's true your size those matter when it comes to dating. Men are more attracted to women who are slender than overweight. Naturally I'm not saying that over weight women are not attractive... but the fact is that women who are overweight have a harder time finding a mate then slender women. I mean we all know that it shouldn't matter how much you weight or how you look. It should be about the person you are that matters...but we live in a world that is fixated on women's bodies and looks. I'm not telling you that if your over weight, and want to find a mate you should lose weight... but I feel obligated to report this because it is a fact. Women who are over weight date less, and have less sex. The reason for this is that men have to be attracted to you in order to want to get to know you better. Again I'm not saying you should lose weight for a men... If you are happy with yourself you wont care about what others think is or isn't attractive. You should only want to lose weight for yourself...Frankly to me I think the most attractive thing about a women is the size of her self confidence not her waist...and for all the men that disagree you can kiss my fat ass. Oh and boys same goes for you, any lady that ever side size doesn't matter lied!
